Can a Parent Lose Custody for Not Co-Parenting Effectively in Michigan?

Anna Tsaturova, Michigan managing attorney | Marble Law

By Anna Tsaturova

Michigan managing attorney at Marble Law

Key Takeaways

  • Not co-parenting effectively can create conflict and negatively affect a child’s well-being.
  • Michigan courts may modify custody if one parent refuses to cooperate or obstructs parenting time.
  • Judges assess communication breakdowns, visitation interference, and emotional harm to the child.
  • Evidence of ongoing conflict, lack of cooperation, or harmful behaviors can impact custody decisions.
  • The court always prioritizes the child’s best interests when reviewing custody arrangements.

What Happens When a Parent Doesn’t Co-Parent?

Co-parenting requires both parents to work together to raise their child, even after separation. When one parent refuses to communicate, consistently creates conflict, or tries to interfere with the other parent’s role, it can lead to emotional stress for the child.

Not co-parenting effectively may include refusing to share important information, ignoring court-ordered visitation schedules, or making negative comments about the other parent. Over time, these behaviors can damage the child’s relationship with one or both parents and may lead to legal consequences.

Can a Parent Lose Custody for Not Co-Parenting in Michigan?

Yes, Michigan courts can modify custody arrangements if a parent’s behavior consistently disrupts co-parenting. Judges focus on what is best for the child, and if one parent is causing harm by refusing to cooperate, they may lose some or all of their custodial rights.

The court may reconsider custody if:


  • One parent regularly blocks the other from seeing the child.
  • Communication between parents is so poor that it harms the child’s well-being.
  • There is an ongoing conflict that negatively impacts the child.
  • A parent does not follow court-ordered parenting plans or refuses to compromise.

Losing custody due to poor co-parenting does not happen overnight, but repeated patterns of obstruction, conflict, or alienation can lead a judge to take action.

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How Do Courts Determine If a Parent Is Not Co-Parenting?

If one parent claims the other is not co-parenting, the court looks for solid evidence before making any custody changes. Some common ways to prove poor co-parenting include:

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  • Communication Records: Text messages, emails, or recordings showing hostility, refusal to communicate, or a failure to share important information.
  • Parental Conflict Patterns: Documented disputes showing one parent consistently causing problems.
  • Impact on the Child: Testimonies from teachers, counselors, or medical professionals on how the conflict affects the child.
  • Visitation Interference: Missed or denied parenting time due to one parent refusing to cooperate.
  • Parental Behavior Reports: Reports from family therapists or child custody evaluators assessing each parent’s ability to co-parent.

Judges don’t take custody changes lightly, but strong evidence of one parent’s inability to cooperate may lead to a modification.

Can Custody Be Restored After Losing It for Poor Co-Parenting?

Losing custody due to co-parenting issues is not necessarily permanent. Courts encourage parents to improve their ability to work together, and if a parent can show they have made meaningful changes, they may regain custody rights.


Judges may require a parent to attend parenting classes, family therapy, or dispute resolution programs before considering any custody adjustments. Custody arrangements may be reevaluated if the parent proves they can effectively co-parent and prioritize the child’s well-being.

How Marble Law Can Help

Legal guidance can make a difference if co-parenting conflicts affect your custody rights. Marble Law can help you document co-parenting issues, present strong evidence, and advocate for your child’s best interests in court.

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