Published on December 2, 2024 · 8 min read
Key takeaways
The difference in adoption costs is vast, with some adoptions costing virtually nothing and others costing tens of thousands of dollars.
Depending on the facts of your case, an adoption may take several years and require you to pay adoption-related fees more than once.
You’ll likely have to participate in a comprehensive home visit that reviews your health, parenting skills and financial fitness before you may adopt a child.
Adopting a child into your home is an exciting prospect. However, you might also be a little nervous about the expenses involved in becoming a parent or expanding your family through adoption. The nerves are perfectly normal, and you might ease many of them by reviewing good resources about the cost of adoption, including this article. Below, we discuss the different types of adoption that may be available to you and what type of financial impact they might have on you and your family.
There are different pathways to building a family, and there are different pathways to adopting a child. You might adopt your child through one of the following avenues:
Adoption from a public child welfare system
Adoption from a private agency
Independent adoption
International adoption
Depending on your unique circumstances and the process you choose, the average cost of adoption could be anywhere from $0 to $60,000. Now, let’s review how adoption costs might differ with each process.
Pro tip: Take time to think about all the types of children you could imagine adopting. Ask yourself whether you must adopt an infant or if you’re open to adopting a child who is several years old. Also ask yourself if you could adopt a child with special needs or who is from a different racial background than your own. Adoption of an infant may take longer and expose you to higher fees. Adoption of a child with special needs or different ancestry might require you to pay for more counseling or health care.
Adopting a child from the public child welfare system, sometimes called foster care adoption, is often the least expensive option. This type of adoption typically involves children who are already in the foster care system and are waiting to be placed in a permanent home. If you seek this type of adoption, you may have no fees. However, some cases include minimal fees for services such as:
Adoption home studies
Attorney advice
Court documents
Medical co-pays for the applicant
Pet immunizations
Safety changes for the applicant’s household
If you have to pay fees for a foster care adoption, you might receive up to $2,000 in adoption assistance. Families choosing public adoptions might also be eligible for ongoing financial support, including assistance with healthcare and education costs. Please note that adoption assistance varies by state.
Adopting through a private adoption agency is another common option, and the price may vary greatly. Private agencies work directly with birth parents and adoptive families to facilitate the adoption of infants and children. The average cost of a private agency adoption in the US may range from $30,000 to $60,000. The cost of private adoption might vary based on factors like:
Your income
Whether you hire an attorney to help you
How long it takes for you to complete the adoption process
Whether a court needs to terminate a birth parent’s rights first
How much counseling or healthcare services you, the child or the child’s birth parents might need before and after the adoption
The extent of the birth parents’ legal costs
How much interim care the child might need before the adoption is final
How much post-placement supervision might be necessary before the adoption is final
Pro tip: Think about attending adoption orientations with many private agencies. These orientations might help you better understand your options and what you might need for the adoption process. Many agencies offer these orientations free of charge.
In independent adoptions, attorneys help adoptive parents and birth parents complete adoptions privately and without working with an agency. This type of adoption process may vary significantly depending on your state’s regulations. The cost of an independent adoption typically ranges from $25,000 to $45,000, making it a slightly more affordable option compared to a private agency adoption.
In an independent adoption, the costs might include:
Legal fees for attorneys
Fees for advertising to find interested birth parents
Home study fees
Birth parent expenses such as medical bills or living costs during pregnancy
International adoption involves adopting a child from another country and might sometimes be more expensive than adopting a child stateside. The average cost of international adoption ranges from $20,000 to $50,000 or more. Costs often depend on the country from which the family is adopting and which entity is facilitating the adoption. One of the reasons intercountry adoption is so expensive is that it involves navigating the adoption laws of both the US and the child’s country of origin. This often includes multiple trips overseas, which may quickly add to the total cost.
Couples might adopt through any one or a combination of the following entities:
The government
An orphanage
A non-profit organization
A private agency
A facilitator
An attorney
Costs in an international adoption might also vary based on factors such as:
Travel expenses
Immigration fees
Court costs
Medical fees for treating the child
Adoption education services
Translation fees
Post-adoption counseling fees
Escort fees if the adoptive parents can’t travel to accompany the child to the US
Adoption service fees may vary widely depending on where your adoptive child lives. For instance, the United Kingdom, Belize and Sri Lanka have had median adoption service provider Hague Convention fees of $0. But a median adoption service provider convention fee might be more than $20,000 in South Korea.
Tip
Pro tip: Consider how much you already know about another country or how much you can learn about that country before engaging in an international adoption. If you hope to adopt from a country that is typically expensive but you already know the language and many of the customs, you might save money you would have spent on translation or guide fees in a less expensive country.
Now that you know the basic factors that might affect an adoption, let’s go over the average cost of some of the individual elements in an adoption.
A home study is an essential part of most adoptions. A home study might include the following:
Pre-adoption training to help you understand adoption issues and the needs of children waiting to be adopted
An interview with a home study specialist regarding your relationships, parenting skills, life skills and experience with children
A home visit to assess how safe your home environment is for the child
Health statements regarding your current physical and mental health and life expectancy
Health coverage and income statements to show that you can responsibly and adequately handle your finances
The cost of a home study may range from $1,000 to $3,000. This fee may also double because some adoptions take several years to complete, and home studies expire, so you may have to pay for more than one.
If the type of adoption you seek requires you to travel, you may spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on airfare and hotel stays. And you may have to travel multiple times before completing the adoption process.
Your adoption will likely require some kind of court intervention. Court documentation for an adoption might cost you between $500 and $2,000. And these prices significantly increase if you hire an attorney to help you.
You may seek the help of an adoption lawyer for any type of adoption. And you may pay as much as $4,500 or more for attorney assistance. The cost of an attorney might vary according to:
The type of adoption you choose
State or country adoption laws
How long your adoption takes
The complexity of your case
Adoption in the United States offers a variety of options, each with its own costs and procedures. Many adoptive parents find attorney guidance useful for fulfilling the many requirements and diminishing stressors that may come. An attorney can research the state laws that might apply to you in an adoption situation and identify which adoption options are available to you. An attorney may also help you communicate with adoption agencies and draft paperwork necessary to facilitate and finalize an adoption.
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