First, you should make sure you’re eligible to file for divorce in Washington. Residency in Washington state means at least one party needs to reside in the state and the children need to have resided in the state for at least a full 6 months prior to the petition being filed.
It’s important to note that all divorces are different, but the following scenario outlines a typical process. Once you’ve determined you’re eligible, the first step is to hire an experienced attorney to help you through the often complicated divorce process. The attorney will help you file a petition for divorce (which, in Washington, is called a “petition for dissolution of marriage”) and any other additionally required documents. The next step is for a process server to serve your spouse (the “opposing party” in your case) with divorce papers. From there, the divorce proceedings can begin, which will vary depending on the type of divorce you’re seeking, your relationship with your spouse and the asset division involved, among a number of other factors.